“He is such a slob.” “Why can’t he think of me for once?” “If he changes the channel one more time I’m going to scream!” If you’ve been married for more than a day and a half you’ve had some annoying thoughts bounce around your head from time to time. I’m sure of it. But, is that where your mind camps? Is this your warm dwelling place where you … [Read more...]
How to Stay Happily Married on Mother’s Day
There’s something about runny eggs and lumpy pancakes served by dimpled hands and chubby cheeks that makes my mom-heart all a-flutter. So, what does marriage and Mother's Day have to do with one another? Alot. As much as I love to watch my own four attempt to honor me, I’ve been known to be a bit cranky on Mother’s Day. No, not with my … [Read more...]
Is Your Home a Sanctuary?
When my husband Paul was going through law school, he needed a place to study. Our children’s play room was transformed to accommodate his needed space. I still remember the first time he walked down the hallway into his new digs. Clad in an old sweatshirt and jeans, his fists raised high above his head, as he yelled, “Sanctuary!” walking in … [Read more...]
Heart-Shaped Boxes
I once made my husband read the book, “The Five Love Languages”. I was sure he would be enlightened. I just knew there were ways he could better meet my needs. When we took the test together, I couldn’t wait for our results. Which love-language would we each be most fluent in?I felt sorry for Paul when we discovered my answers created a … [Read more...]
Are You A Runner?
I'm a recovering runner. No, not the type of runner who pounds the pavement for health reasons. I used to run from anything hurtful or uncomfortable in my marriage. Read my article over at Exemplify today. You might be able to relate to some of the running I used to do. Don't forget to leave a comment and let us know if you have any … [Read more...]